My week last week was extremely stressful. My husband has been working some very long hours, and not getting enough time off, so I have had the kids all week and was going out of my mind from stress. Well Saturday night when my husband got home we began fighting about his hours again, so I decided to just give myself a break. I took off and started driving. Along the way I said to myself that it would be nice to go see a movie. I don't often see movies in theaters due to the cost and the fact that I'd much rather go with hubby, but then we'd have to hire a sitter and that gets really costly. So I drove to the mall and decided to see Hancock. It was a great movie, and it felt really good to be able to do that for myself.
Of course the prices are ridiculous. It cost me $3.75 for a flippin bottle of water! For crying out loud.
[question posted by katsmeow1213]
responses and comments:
Somrtimes we feel to watch movies alone because movies are a great stress busters.They take you to other world.and you will forget about your problems atleast for some time.but we want to watch romantic movies with your hubby or lover.we would like to watch comedies with friends.It depends on mood and the situation. [mythreya]
for me, the best way to get away from the stresses of life, even for just short while is to get some candy from the dollar store and catch a movie that i'd have trouble getting my husband or children to see. Last month i saw sex in the city. [mcgreetz]
happyNow days with the prices it is so hard to find some thing to do that will not cost a small fortune. Good for you for going to the movies. You need to do some thing for yourself every now and then. It would have been nice to take the hubby. I have done this before to. Just to get away. I do not hire babysitters for my toddler. If she does not go with family then I have her all the time so I do know what you mean about being with the kids all the time. Have you thought about maybe filling out job applications for your local companies online for the hubby? Then he would only have to take off work for the interview. Just a thought. [honeydew82174]
As much as I hate to say it, I think we are going to stick it out with his current job. [katsmeow1213]
I did it once... it was the when I watched Da Vinci's Code... It was an awesome expereience actually! get to enjoy the movie even though I'm alone... it is just weird to see everyone around you with somebody... it distracts me actually... but I prefer to watch movie alone rather than with someone, it makes me concentrate more about the film's story...happyhappy [jeiyah_12]
No I don't. I went alone once and it was the most uncomfortable feeling ever. I hardly go anymore because my brother was my movie buddy and he moved and my gf doesn't like the movies i do. But yea once was enough for me, never again. [Tim8806]
I'm with you guys...it would feel weird to me and I would be self conscious. I would worry about not being able to find my seat again if I went for munchies. Also, I fall asleep these days when I try to watch a movie...such a waste if I've paid good money.blink [MsTickle]
A long time ago I used to go to movies alone. That was when the cost of watching one on the big screen was not as prohibitive as it is today. Many of my friends found it weird that I did -- one because they think it's scary to be inside a moviehouse alone and two, because movies are meant to be enjoyed with someone. But I found it relaxing to go out on my own, enjoy an activity by myself and really concentrate on what it is I am watching. Besides, I could watch whatever movie that caught my fancy even the most inane without having to listen to someone else criticize me for my choice. [alena824]
i go with friends but the last one, Hancock, i did watch it all alone because everybody have somthing to do =/ the movie was great anyway with them or not but i believe if they are there it could be best thanks, Scorpionok. [Scorpionok]
Sometimes, yes. When I just want to unwind by myself, I love to watch movies alone.. especially when none of my friends are available or if everyone else are busy. I love to pamper myself with a movie, that's one of my therapy after a busy day's work:) Btw, that's really expensive for a bottle of water! [gegegelay]
Hi friend, according to me i won't go alone to movies. It will be boring if i go alone that's why i will go to movie with my friend's or my relatives or with my family. Really i will saw movie in theatre monthly once or six month. Cost of the ticket will be more now so. [chandu245]
Twice. I went to the movies TWICE. And you know what? It felt a bit comforting. The first time I went to the movies alone was when I went to see "Yu-Gi-Oh! The Movie". The second was when I saw "V for Vendetta". But on both occasions, I had to walk a short-but-hot distance away, but it was worth it. I had my money ready to pay, and the thing about going to the movies alone is that you don't have someone drag you to a film that you don't want to see. The prices may be a bit pricey, but it's all worth it. So I have experience in this kind of thing. [DuoMaxwell]
There's absolutely nothing wrong with going to the movies alone, especially if you are stressed and need time away. I don't go to the movies alone myself and for that matter, I don't like even renting or buying a movie and watching it myself. I prefer the company of others there with me. It is stressful when you don't have your partner around to help you with the kids but try to remember that his working late will help pay off a lot of summer bills. I'm a single mom myself and don't have a partner to help me and YES it gets very stressful and you just need a break. Try getting a friend or relitive to watch the kids for a few hours at least once a month so you and your husband (but mostly you) can get out and keep your sanity. It's crutial to do this otherwise the stress is just going to build and it will ruin your relationship with your husband. Good luck. [liltunergirl]
Movies are outrageously expensive to go to...but if I desperately want to see something in a theater then I go with other people. I also after getting married don't have friends or family near me. Even though I Love my husband some days I just feel like I wish I was single again...it's a different feeling...like I just want to be left alone. So when I am stressed or feel alone...I take the alternative route and either go for a walk or sit in a park. It helps clear my head. [hon7483]
I dont think I would go to the cinema alone,The feeling is terrible..because I cannot share the joys with others ,For me the most important thing is the happiness which I can get from,the content and the place are less important for me.. [wuliucong]
Well good for you! Everyone needs a break now and then, and instead of staying and continue to bicker, you left and were able to relieve some stress. The movies provide us with a "great escape hatch" from the pressures of day to day living. Too bad about the water though! Ouch! That's a bit steep! I guess next time you'll hit the water fountain in the mall first! [di1159]
I've only been to the movies alone once in my life, and that was to see Mel Gibson's movie, Passion of the Christ. I was living with my elderly parents at the time and was new in town and had not met any friends. I wasn't really alone, though. The theater was PACKED and I brought a big box of tissues and shared it with the entire row of people. :-) [kenzie45230]
It's been quite a while since the last time I saw a movie in the theater. That was around 2 years ago. I was most active watching movies in the theater when I was a college student and yes, I would watch alone. That was the time when the ticket price was only 50 PHP on the average. Honestly, I don't know now how much it would cost but I presume the price has increased a lot. [clowdine]
I think it depeneds on the movie if you can watch it alone or with someone besides you. I prefer having someone by my side, so we can laugh toghether, comment ..etc. I think you made a great choice with that movie, Hancock. I waited for it too long, I watched it at home as soon as I got my hands on a version. So, to make a long answer short, I don't go to movies alone. I usually go with more than one person.:) [RaDuuu]
i would do that (but i actually havent done it myself) but if you think, it makes a lot of sense, after all, all you are really doing is watching a movie. its not a time for chit chat but ya, the prices are nuts at the theatre and we havent been to a movie since we saw horton hears a who (which we got to see for free! - we traded in points for a voucher). [cher913]
i never wants to go movies alone. by going i m not able share my happines with anybody.i always prefer somebody for movie. [yasha1]
I go to the movies by myself frequently. There are so many movies that I would like to see that I dont think hubby would enjoy I go by myself. I would rather have a friend to go with but I dont know too amny people that are available during the day. I agree most of the prices at the concession are ridiculous but I have a regal cinema card so I sometimes will get freebies from going to the movies. and have gotten a few free popcorns. [snowy22315]
My problem isn't so much that I don't know anyone available during the day, but that I don't know anyone period, lol. I really don't have any friends I feel close enough to that I could just call and ask to go to the movies with me. That's something I'm working on. [katsmeow1213]
I go to the movies alone all the time and I usually get a popcorn and drink. I I have been known to mix it up a bit and occasionally splurge for the nachos. Hey, I can't take with me when I go, so I may has well enjoy now! Cheers Stan [trinale]
i never go to the movies alone so far... i am not a movie fan and hardly go to the theatre anyway... i prefer to watch the movies from DVDs or the computer... it is so much cheaper and more relaxing as well... i prefer to go shopping or read a book when i feel stressed... take care and have a nice day... [lingli_78]
Oh! Good for you! You deserve a break. Guys don't understand the stresses a 24/7 mom faces. They just assume we are at the house anyway, so what's the big deal with being around the kids more. But honestly, all of us moms need to be able to take a break on occasion. I'm happy that you got a few minutes breathing space. I look forward to watching Hancock. Will Smith is so funny and talented. [beautyqueen26]
This sounds good! Will Smith, funny as he is, is great in serious roles, too. I'll have to check this one out. It's been ages since I have been to a movie. [galadr1el]
That's kind of bad, ain't it. Going to the movies alone just ruin everything. If you want it to be cheap, rent a DVD. The monthly cost of having movie rentals is far cheaper than going to the cinema just for looking a big projector screen and nice sound effects. I still recommend you to look for better options other than going out since you have financial issues that needs to be sort out. [Msnforum]
Regardless of anyone's financial situation, treating themselves on occasion is a must! Especially a stay at home mom who doesn't get to leave the house all week. Being able to see a movie alone was equivalent to a couple hours of heaven... so next time keep your opinionated comments to yourself, TYVM. [katsmeow1213]
Sometimes i wish i could just get in the car and take a break . I think i am more the one to walk , swim , or park for stress . Be nice tho to go out and see an up beat movie . I know the prices are crazy and i havent been to the movies since the new years eve . my fiance owes me . he wants to see dark night , so maybe we will go soon [metschica25]
I always do. I've got reasons but I'm not sure everybody will agree, but well, we can't please everybody. Since my college days, I've been accustomed to watching a movie alone. I'm not actually a loner, I've got friends. Shucks, I even had a boyfriend! But I rather watch a movie alone because I want no distraction. The problem with having a company in the movie house is the possibility of missing some good parts in the movie because a friend might want to ask a question or might want to start a conversation about a scene. I mean, I would rather discuss the movie after seeing it not while I'm watching it. Yep, I want a great deal of focus when watching a movie because I'm paying for it and it should be worth my money. Also, I sometimes need to be alone. You know, to enjoy things without depending on others to make me happy. Well, at least my old hobby of doing things alone is paying off right now. I'm "forced" to live a solitary life right now and I'm sure I won't make it if I wasn't prepared for it... Nice discussion.. God bless. [maple_kisses]
I always go to movies alone and i esp love those with deep themes,so i would really prefer to watch them by myself.However if it's some kind of flick ,i would bring someone to watch together. [LimoChang]
Yikes! That's too costly for a bottle of water. shocked I go to the movies alone these days. My friends have different work schedules so I couldn't just easily invite them to watch with me. I prefer watching with my friends. But these days I don't mind so much that I go alone. [joliefille]
i went to the movies once by myself. it was nice but i had noone to talk to or laugh with. i would do it again but no time soon it is better when i go with someone because i have someone to talk to or mess around with.lol [latriciajones]
No, I don't go to the movies alone. I find it very boring, so I take my husband with me... [goddessofbeauty]
Well after i working tiredness and stressfull in whole weekday, sometime i choses to go to the cinema to watch movie, as one of the way to througth out the stressfull in my mind and the tirenes in my body. Well maybe i think if i walk to garden or shopping mall or anywhere else it will increase my tirednes only so i rather chooses a god chair with nice air cond and filling with suround speaker in theather to release my stressful in my mind and tiredness in my whole body. [moveadlung76]
Dear friend, I do go to movies alone whenever I do feel that I need some time for relaxation and even with my friends or relatives or family memebers too I go but mostly I go for movies alone. As my parents see much of movies on Television and rarely they like to go to movies. Then my friens they too have some other important works as in the time I in a mood to view movies they may not. Hence I prefer to go to movies much alone most of the times and also if it is good movies I my concentration would on that too and moreover I had also tried to get a nap if the movie is boring.happy [SHAMRACK]
I have a problem going to the movie theater because it is so expensive! I have gone by myself one time in my life which I did to prove a point to myself that I COULD do it. And I can do it but its not as much fun without a friend. [horsesrule]
I never been to a movie theater alone.I always watch with my hubby and daughter.I think you just wanted to take away your stress and i hope that helped you. [msedge]
I won't thumbdownprefer to take my whole family to malls, my child very knotty he disturbed many times when we used to saw movies, he forced me to take out side for looking toy stores and many other places, so I prefer to go movie with one or two friends and get some enjoymenthappy. [twistershot]
I do not see movies very often now a days. I just cannot enjoy myself alone watching a movie. It gives me great joy and fun, if someone is along with me, because this way I can share my instant opinion about the movie, characters and story-line. I would go to see movies many years ago with one of my friends, who was very found of movie, and we would continue to discuss the movie through out the show (in a low voice, so as not to disturb others). [dpk262006]
Only when i am very upset, i will go to watch the movie alone. in the past, i will watch the movie with my boyfriend.But, now, he works in another city.Quite hard for us to meet, so I do everything all by myself.Sometimes, it is a fantastic issue to be alone. [zijin01]
hi dear sometimes when my husband is away for some work for a day or two ..i take my son and go for a movie alone it is a good pass time...and it is also enjoyable why sit and feel low..take care have a nice day.. [nupats]
Its great that you went for the movie and enjoyed it too. When I was with my family, I never went for any movie alone rather the idea of going alone made me sick. But now when I stay alone, I get so bugged on weekends. So I have thought of going to movie alone now. Even i was a little hesitant towards going alone but now I am looking forward to it. [dropofrain]
i havent realy tried watching a movie on my own, i always have friends to accompany me or my boyfriend, but there was one time when my boyfriend and i are having a little fight, i was so sad that i went out on my own, just wandering and strolling around the mall. then when i passed by the theaters, i saw that 27 dresses was already showing, i sent him a text message and told him that i'll be watching 27 dresses alone, but he went to the theater instead and we watched it together. [austere]
i only watched a movie alone just once...it was because my mother was so busy she don't have time to go with me, and i need to pass the movie report soon...i was like 10 or 12 then...it never happened again.hehehe [roanne05]
I never go see a movie alone. If I have a dvd, I'll watch it at home by myself. No problem. I'd actually prefer to watch alone. But if I'm going out, then I definitely want someone I know sitting beside me! I don't know why I feel this way, but I guess I pay for the companionship as well? Or the companionship affects my movie watching experience? I think it also has to do with the fact that I watched the movies with my family all the time when I was younger. [mimico]
I never been to the movies alone. I never really thought about it until you said it lol. I always have been with someone else. We use to have a movie day with just the girls and go see a girly movie it would give us a break. It was fun not having to really worry about anyone else. No kids or men were allowed. [mflower2053]
I don't know why I always preffered to watch the movies alone!confusedI have no reason for that.My friends always say there is something wrong with !! I am a bit emotional too in the theatre . And yes the costs have increased in India too.But we need some entertainment right? [bhaskarsrkr]
I know all about stress. lol. with a husband and three kids its a blessing to go to the movies by myself. I went by myself one time, and really enjoyed it. NOt the movie, but I enjoyed my time. Not having to worry about the kids running around, and my husband nagging at me. But like you it gets expensive going to the movies, even by yourself. [shymurl]
Hello katsmeow. Ah! you want to talk about the price of the water and going to the movies alone, so I will answer both points: a) I have not been alone to a movie since I was a teenager, when I went to see Bo Derek in Tarzan the Ape Man. As fate would have it I was seen by the older brother of my classmate, who got an enormous kick out of this. I will never go to the cinema alone again :-). b) The prices for the drinks and popcorn at the cinemas are indeed very high. However, I am glad that cinema has made a comeback as I remember many of the cinemas I grew u with in the 1970s being closed down as the business declined and the video industry took off. So from this perspective I would rather have the high prices than no cinema at all. All the best. Umart [umart13]
hi katsmeow.. how are you.. well good for you.. i do not go to the movie alone.. i find it is very boring.. i never wants to go movies alone.. i take my boyfriend with me.. keep posting.. take care and have fun.. [anitajayakumar]
well thats really too costly and too much to pay for a bottle of water which you are supposed to get for free. i never go to movies alone. i need company to watch them and also during the journey. if i had to go alone, i would better cancel the plan. if there is a company, you can enjoy the movie more and also feel secured in the journey to and fro. [crazy286]
I rarely go to the cinema because we have a little baby and my wife doesn't understand well the local language, so in a very few occasions I went on my own. I prefer going in company in order to comment the film afterwards, but after all during the film I don't have to talk to anybody so I don't mind much going on my own. [overwings]
I never go to the movies alone, either accompanied by friends or stay home to watch movie. but i do shopping alone, try new restaurant alone when i find a restaurant opens. [gabbana]
Hi katsmeow, I believe it only happened once that I went to a movie alone, and that was many years ago. There was a particular movie that I wanted to see and none of my friends were interested. I don't believe I had a girlfriend at the time. It's great that you were able to go and enjoy the movie, and I certainly agree with you about the prices. Blessings. [Pose123]
Yeah I have gone to the movies alone. It is kind of nice. I went alot when my husband was deployed/at school since when I wanted to go, my friends would be at work. At first I felt weird cause I had never been by myself and I thought people would look at me funny being alone, but I got over it. You can sit where ever you want, not having to worry where the other person or people you are with wanted to sit. I haven't been to the movies much now since I have my son though. Oh and the water....I take a bottle with me and put it in the bottom of my purse! No way am I paying that much for water!! And they have never checked either. [porcelina7776]
I have, many times, especially if there is a movie I have to see which nobody else is interested in seeing. The first time I did it, I felt so uncomfortable standing in line among dating couples, and going up to the ticket window to ask for one ticket. But after that, I felt fine. Once you're inside, it doesn't matter. It's not like dining alone, because you can't talk during the movie anyway. [fec139]
happyyeah sometimes only..when i think i needed a break or something..but usually i watch alone when i had a misunderstanding with my husband..to cool myself and it work really..one way of releasing tensions and the likes.. [vanities]
I hate go to the movie alone.if so I'd better watch TV at home. [Quenna]
Yes, I love going to the movies alone. When I was a student I used to do this all the time, especially in France, where it seems like it's a really normal thing to do! Here in the UK not so many people do it, but even so, I've hardly ever been the only person who's there by myself, especially if I've been during the day. It doesn't bother me either way, as it's something I enjoy doing. I went to the cinema alone the other week, for the first time in many years. My husband decided that he wanted to take our daughter out for the day for some daddy-time. I'm really not used to spending time without her, so I had to remember back to what I liked to do before I had her, and I finally came up with the cinema! I went to see Mamma Mia!, which was enjoyable for the most part (I've reviewed it on my blog if you'd like to see! The link's on my profile page). But what I was also struck by most was the prices of things! Even though this was a suburban cinema, it cost me £7.50 for a ticket (about $15), and if I wanted to get popcorn it would have been £3 ($6) for the smallest size! Saying all this though, I had a great time. I find it a really liberating experience going to see a film by myself, I can just sit there and get lost in the story without any interruption to my viewing or my thoughts! I'm glad you had a good time too. Maybe you'll do it again now that you know you enjoy it happy. [liquorice]
I do not go to the movies alone. Most of the time, I watch them on the movie channels at home, and when we do go to the movies it is something special like a birthday or something. I have never gone to the movies by myself. I like to sit with someone and watch it then. We usually just buy popcorn, but I would rather buy something for myself as I do not exactly like popcorn. Too salty. [suspenseful]
Sorry to hear about your incredibly stressful day on Saturday. It seems you were able to get away and do something you really enjoy: watch a movie. Although I have been to movies alone, it's been alot of years. Recently, I said I was going to go see S-x and the City movie alone, but I didn't do it and I've had several chances. I guess I don't want to see it that bad. Yes, I usually try to sneak my bottle of water in inside my purse. I think they are $4 at our theater. So ridiculous. Well, hope you have a better week, katsmeow1213. Do take care. [PearlGrace]
yes I always do and go to the movie alone during my College day especially after an examination and I mad it there to have my relaxation time...... [iyah10]
I don't think I've ever been to the movies alone in my life. I think I'd feel a bit weird, like a Johnnie No Mates! I suppose once the film got going I'd be OK, but I don't think I'd like that first bit where everyone is coming and going and the adverts and trailers are playing. Going on your own is certainly a cheaper option though! Last time I went to the cinema complex I nearly died when I got the bill for our hotdogs! Without the kids I know I could pass the food stands unscathed, but with them in tow my wallet would be decimated. [GreenMoo]
i've never been to the movies alone lol. not too sure why but i feel rather uncomfortable doing so. i usually go to the movies with friends and if there's any movie that i wanna watch and don't have anyone to go with, i'd just download it off the net hehe confused [kevsgirlalways]
Last year I saw the Simpsons alone, in the theater. What happens is that my sister go to a multiplex and she sees a film I didn't want to see and I go to see a film she didn't want to see. We met afterwards and have lunch.A tip, if you want to see a film airing in an AMC theater, plan to see it before 12pm on Friday, Saturday, on Sunday. That's how I got to see the batman movie for 6.00 instead of 10.00. ps. My mom told me that my dad wouldn't go to see a movie without her.But as soon as she became pregnant with me, she said wasn't going to any film she didn't want to see. I guess I got being stubborn through the womb [sarahruthbeth22]
I don't mind going alone, but ti more fun when you have company [gtdonna]
I don't go to the movies alone or with other people. Going to the movies has become so expensive that I just can't justify going. If cost were not the issue, whether I would go to the movies by myself or not would solely depend on the movie. If it was a movie that I wanted to see horribly bad and no one else wanted to see it, then I would like to think that I would be able to go and see it by myself. I would probably feel a little uncomfortable at first, but hopefully the movie would be good enough that I would forget about that. [michelyn]
I'm so sorry for coming in so late. First of all, I don't like to watch a movie in theater and in case I have to go there, I'll never go alone. [suruchi86]
No I would never watch a movie alone in a theatre. It will be too boring and dull. There is no one with whom you may be able to share your laugh and anyways it seems pretty zombie-ish to go to theatres alone. However, considering if you have to watch movies on a laptop. It may not be that much of a issue as I prefer to watch movies alone on my laptop. Especially, horror movies make me happy if I wqatch them alone. Also, it enhances the effect. Going to the movies alone however is a big no and I would never consider it. [djemba]
I tried going alone to the movies but I feel lonely so I usually take a friend with me. There should be someone with you so that you can share your thoughs with them after the movie. Sometimes,I will go with my family and It is really enjoyable to be with them while watching a movie. [treviewz]